# Tell Your Child Handbook
> Be open: explain why, what you can see, how long it lasts and what your child can ask in return. Transparency protects trust and safety.

## Guides
- [A Conversation Script You Can Adapt](https://tell-your-child.pages.dev/script-tell-child-monitoring/): A useful script tell child monitoring conversation should explain the safety concern, what parents intend to check, and what information will remain private.
- [Promises Parents Can Make in Return](https://tell-your-child.pages.dev/parent-promises-monitoring-child/): The parent promises monitoring child arrangements need are specific commitments about privacy, proportionality, honesty, and accountability.
- [Handling Anger and the Word Unfair](https://tell-your-child.pages.dev/child-angry-about-monitoring/): When a child angry about monitoring expresses frustration, parents should acknowledge the feeling before explaining their safety concerns.
- [What You Can See and What You Will Not Check](https://tell-your-child.pages.dev/what-parents-will-not-check/): Parents should define what parents will not check before monitoring begins, including private conversations, personal interests, and information unrelated to a.
- [Setting a Date to Review the Arrangement](https://tell-your-child.pages.dev/monitoring-review-date-family/): A monitoring review date family agreement should establish when parents and children will reconsider the monitoring arrangement, assess whether it remains.

## About
- [About Tell Your Child Handbook](https://tell-your-child.pages.dev/about/): responsible use, how the site is funded and how guides are made

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